IDENTITY COACH + WRITER + SPEAKER

Hi, I’m Romi and welcome! I’m a certified Identity Coach (ITC), author of Breathe Mija, a mother, Latina, entrepreneur, and former public figure who has built a life rooted in resilience, purpose, and faith. Breathe Mija shares the lessons, faith, and hard-won truths that shaped my own transformation, and it’s the heart of everything I bring to my coaching.

Over the past two years, I’ve supported individuals from all walks of life in:

  • Exploring questions of identity, sexuality, and coming out, with a safe, affirming space for LGBTQ+ folks and those still figuring it out

  • Establishing sustainable nutrition habits

  • Creating fitness routines to support mind-body wellness

  • Setting and achieving meaningful goals

  • Building healthier relationships

  • Addressing addiction and emotional habits

  • Reclaiming time and energy for personal growth

  • Addressing addiction and emotional habits

  • Navigating sobriety and recovery

I’ve walked through many paths of transformation, and now I’m here to walk with you through yours. Whether you’re in transition, seeking healing, or ready to deepen your self-awareness, my coaching meets you where you are.

ROMI

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WHAT TO EXPECT

Through weekly one-on-one sessions and personalized check-ins, we’ll build a supportive structure to guide your growth mentally, emotionally, physically, and spiritually. Our 50 minute sessions will meet you where you are and help move you toward where you want to be. You’ll receive must-have tools like breathwork and meditation, curated books and podcasts for insight, simple reflection practices, and nutrition and fitness guidance to support your overall well-being.

This is a safe, judgment-free space where you can show up fully, explore your truth, and make progress at your own pace. Together, we’ll navigate questions around identity, sexuality, relationships, sobriety, and personal development. My coaching is rooted in acceptance, and always tailored to your unique journey.

Whether you're seeking clarity, healing, or transformation, I’ll offer practical tools, emotional support, and spiritual guidance if desired. Prayer and faith-based discussions are available for those who wish to include them.

“You’ve gotta feel it, to heal it.”

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WHAT MY CLIENTS ARE SAYING

  • "Working with Romi has been a life-changing experience. I was feeling lost and struggling with my sense of purpose after COVID lockdowns but with her help and guidance, I have since been able to find the clarity and direction to live my life, authentically.  Her compassionate, nurturing approach and thought-provoking questions have allowed me to reconnect with my true self and go after the opportunities that align with my values and showcase my creative side.  I highly recommend her to anyone who is looking for positive growth and change that takes courage and action!"

    JB | Austin, TX

  • "I can’t wait for my next session with Romi. Her compassion & enthusiasm is infectious, and she’s able to create a welcoming, fun & honestly sacred environment where you can step back from your life before stepping boldly back in. You get the sense that because she’s either been where you are or can empathically relate, you can be radically honest with her, and thus yourself. Working with Romi is both a huge relief & the beginning of a new relationship with yourself — with the identities that are no longer serving you & the ones you are choosing to embrace.”

    Rebecca | Los Angeles, CA

  • "Romi has been a true catalyst for change in my life. After struggling to quit drinking three times, I’ve now reached 45 days of sobriety with her support. As a driven professional and devoted mom navigating the challenges of Lyme disease, she’s helped me find balance, prioritize my well-being, and reconnect with myself through meditation. Her holistic approach—focusing on nourishment over numbers—has also helped me lose 12 lbs. I’m beyond grateful for her guidance and unwavering support!"

  • "I appreciate your time and know you are going to help many many people. I left our session with some useful tools and information to help me, help myself. I will use the resources you have provided and will be glad to refer folks to you and most certainly give a resounding YES!"

    Shannon | Tennessee

  • "I will forever be grateful for my time with Romi. She will never truly know the impact she has had on my life and my families life. I highly recommend everyone and anyone to invest in themselves. Her open mindedness raw honesty and compassion shine through in every session.  Romi has taught me how to fight for myself she has been there through the good, bad and ugly sessions without judgement she provides a true safe space to let your walls down.  I was truly broken when I came into coaching over my sessions she has helped me to piece together my broken parts and is helping me to rebuild even stronger. I can honestly say coaching with Romi is helping me to save my own life."

    B | Australia

  • "Romi brings a lot of life experience into her sessions, and creates a safe space where I felt supported by her empathy and knowledge. She is highly professional, and at the same time extremely relatable and easy to talk to. Her passion for helping others heal is inspiring. Leaving our session, I felt energized and ready to tackle this new time in my life with the tools and advice she gave me. I look forward to another session soon. "

    Caley | B.C. Canada

  • "Working with Romi was a wonderful experience. In just one hour, she guided me to unveil insights about myself that I hadn’t realized before. Romi has a unique gift for creating a safe and nurturing space where I felt heard and understood. Her gentle coaching style allowed me to explore deeper within myself and aspects of my life that I had been neglecting. Romi's ability to provide clarity and insight is remarkable. She gave me the permission I needed to start making positive changes in my life. Her compassion and empathy is so refreshing. If you're looking for a coach who will support you, inspire you, and help you uncover your potential, Romi is the one. Thank you, Romi, for your support."

    Kim | Austin, TX

  • “After my coaching session with Romi, I felt clarity and a sense of direction that I haven’t felt in a very long time. Romi was present, attentive and even relatable at times during our session. Romi not only provided a safe space for me to open up on certain struggles but was able to identify strategies and methods to help me get to the next step of where I want to be. My session with Romi helped me see the bigger picture and I feel very grateful for our session.”

    Chelsea

  • "My time with Romi was truly eye-opening. In just one session, I gained valuable insight into my goals, challenges and a plan for moving forward. Her empathetic listening and thoughtful questions immediately put me at ease, making it easy to open up and explore my wants and needs. She creates a beautifully safe space to be yourself. I left the session feeling inspired and motivated. If you are seeking positive change, give yourself this gift and schedule an appointment."

  • "Your space, experience, understanding, and heart are truly valued, and you should know that your presence is positively impacting others more than you realize."

    Lauren

  • “My session with Romi was truly a breakthrough for me as she was so inspiring, motivational, the BEST listener, and knew exactly what I needed to hear and take action on. Romi has helped me pull myself out of places I felt trapped and completely lost in. Her services are a MUST in my book; and her recommendations for continued development could not be more perfect!”

    Amy

  • “Thank you for giving me a space to be so vulnerable and empowered, accepted and challenged at the same time. Thank you for relating to me and connecting with me without judgement. You made me feel so comfortable, seen, and validated. It is what my soul needed and I am so grateful. I can’t wait to schedule my next session!”

  • "Romi has been instrumental in helping me find clarity and direction during a challenging phase of life. During our sessions, she asks important questions to help me figure out what it is I want and am looking for, then she provides helpful resources and tools to help me move in the right direction. She’s always made me feel extremely comfortable opening up and being honest in ways I’ve never been before. She is tremendously knowledgeable and experienced… and truly passionate in helping others live happier, more fulfilling lives."